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Anonymous asked: I feel lonely and alone and unwanted and unloved :( How do I change it? x

Well I’m sure there are SOME people in the world who care about you, so maybe try to connect better with them? If not, try to make new friends. I find that very hard so I have to really work at it but it pays off! I find really listening and remembering what people say to you helps with that :) For eg if someone says they like pink dresses next time you see them you can say you saw a pink dress you thought they would love and where they could get it, but obviously don’t go all stalkerish on their ass, breaking into their bedroom at night to watch them sleep is never ok (yes, I’m looking at you Edward Cullen). And then its a case of finding ways to spend time with that person, inviting them to coffee, joining them if they invite you someplace.

Also I find that I feel lonely, alone, unwanted and unloved at times too, even though I have the exact same amount of people in my life as I did the day before. This feeling is more a reflection on how I’m feeling about myself then whether or not the people around me love me. Try to remind yourself that the feeling is NOT permanent -it helps me to remember that I wont feel this way forever and that feeling that way doesn’t make it true.

And even if there’s no one in your life you feel like connecting with right now you are not unloveable, or unwantable and you won’t be alone forever :) Don’t forget that you’re a pretty awesome person with things to offer and spend a little time offering, there is a person, people, out there who want what you have to give! *hugs*